Gabrielle Union has a message for all those wondering how she's dealing with the news that Dwayne Wade fathered a son by another woman: don't worry about me! "The goal is not perfection," the actress wrote on Twitter last night after being the subject of numerous posts about Wade's child. "The goal is to be whole."
Union went on to warn other women about becoming to invested in any man. "That 'you complete me' mess is total crap. Work on YOURSELF. Become whole. Healthy, happy and watch what happens. Working on ME has gotten me MUCH further than obsessing/criticizing/judging other folks. U never lose when you work on yourself."
Wade says the child was conceived during a period when he and Union were broken up. "In our time apart, in our break, in our pain and our hurt, a blessing came out of it in my life, having a son who was born healthy," Wade tells ESPN.
Wade said he has visited the boy, who is about a month old.